The Messy Stuff

Not your average life blip.

What makes 'Now what?' moments so challenging and unique?

Aug 3 •

The Messy Stuff: What is a ‘Now what?’ moment?

Figuring out how to recognise a 'Now what?' moment, and what to expect next.

Jul 6 •

The Messy Stuff: The year I realised that the life I was building didn't fit me.

Sometimes you keep heading down the 'wrong' path until you're forced to stop and check in.

May 20 •

The Messy Stuff: Fear of Missing Out

Thoughts on missing out and how it's really related to the search for meaning, thanks to the author Oliver Burkeman.

Apr 19, 2024 •

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